Promoting and equitably assisting organizations in the integration of animal-assisted therapies for the physical, mental, and emotional benefit of individuals in public and private settings, one paw at a time.
In honor of Black History Month, each week, I will delve into the heartwarming bond between Black voices and their cherished canine companions. This week, I honor the trailblazing Pauli Murray – a civil rights activist, legal scholar, and champion for equality.
Along with Pauli’s immense contributions to life as we know it today, Pauli was a steadfast dog lover and it is Pauli’s enduring love for dogs that is beautifully captured in this moment. Pictured here you will find an image of Pauli and cherished companion, “Doc” – officially known as “Black and White We Rise Together,” on the lawn of Benedict College (Farber Archives, 1967).
Throughout Pauli’s remarkable life, dogs transcended the role of mere pets; they were steadfast allies, bearing witness to Pauli’s tireless advocacy for justice, equality, and ideals.
Accompanying their groundbreaking contributions, Pauli’s connection with their canine companions is a testament to the enduring strength found in companionship and the human-animal bond. “Doc” stands as one of the many loyal dogs integral to Pauli’s story, quite possibly offering solace, understanding, and unconditional love.
I am inspired by the thought of Pauli Murray making these profound contributions, accomplishing monumental feats all the while having a loyal canine companion equally steadfast by their side—a symbol of companionship, unwavering support, and a unique kind of partnership, but the most true form of love.
Imagine the comfort of having a faithful friend, witnessing tireless advocacy, celebrating triumphs, and offering solace during challenges. This bond may very well have evoked feelings of determination, resilience, and reaffirmed Pauli’s commitment to making a difference.
Pauli and “Doc,” a testament to the extraordinary impact that the companionship of a beloved dog can have on one’s life, the role they play in the narrative of accomplishments, and the inspiration to continue on my own advocacy journey, with gratitude and love for the pack that remains by my side.
Please consider a visit to my Instagram to view posts honoring the incomparable Black voices of Billie Holiday and Oprah, and their respective love of dogs.
NYPD K9 Steven, named after the late Manhattan Detective Steven McDonald, passed away after a battle with cancer; he was 7 years old. K9 Steven, a Dutch Shepherd, was more than a working dog for the NYPD. He transcended his role as a police dog, mirroring the heroic spirit of his namesake and partner, Officer Joe Brayuha.
For six years, K9 Steven and Officer Joe Brayuha formed an inseparable partnership that showcased an unparalleled commitment to their duty. Together, they undertook deployments with NY Task Force 1, demonstrating their versatility, resilience, and unwavering readiness to rise to challenges in moments of crisis. The trials they overcame together, and the unspoken camaraderie they embodied, oh the stories they must have exchanged…
I felt compelled to reach out to Officer Brayuha and our conversations, though brief, resonated deeply. He shared that K9 Steven had an extraordinary ability to connect with people, “he loved everyone he met.” And as I continued to read Officer Brayuha’s response, it became very clear why, as a dog-lover and advocate for animal-assisted therapies, I was curious to learn more about their bond—a bond that, in essence, is more similar than different from the bond I have with my own dogs, and probably more similar than different from your understanding of the human-animal bond.
K9 Steven and Officer Brayuha are, in fact, archetypal beings themselves, and when combined, they form an archetypal duo, the same archetypal duo easily recognized in movies, literature, and typed across front page headlines of real life. They are the quintessential archetypal duo that navigate archetypal situations together, rely on each other in countless ways to make it through archetypal conflicts and to overcome archetypal antagonists.
In many ways, K9 Steven emerged as a modern-day representation of the tragic hero archetype, bravely confronting cancer head-on, Sadly, when our furry friends receive a cancer diagnosis, it is a very tough archetypal villain to defeat.
Which is why there comes a time when the tragic hero must say goodbye, and that goodbye is especially hard when there is nothing more either archetypal character can do to prevent the inevitable closure to a plot line neither wants to end.
And as is life, the story resumes.
This time though, the onus to continue the duo’s mission and K9 Steven’s legacy doesn’t just fall on Officer Joe Brayuha—it’s a collective effort. And my small part is represented in this post.
I created a digital collage of K9 Steven, entitled “Good Boy,” and found my creative inspiration from reading about K9 Steven and viewing his Instagram. If you look close you can observe the Chrysler Building and even Officer Brayuha. It is my intention to share a digital copy with Officer Brayuha as well as get a framed copy to him. I hope it will serve as a reminder of the duo’s positive impact, and their continued impact on others.
K9 Steven was most definitely a “good boy.” You’ll be missed, buddy.
My original creation; a digital design to welcome Instagram viewers to visit this blog post. My inspiration for this graphic stems from my love of the ocean, Montauk, and of course, dogs | J. Maricevic, 2023.
I recently read a funny meme. It was something along the lines of, “there are some people who should never have met my dog.” That might even be the exact wording, but I’m not quite sure.
I thought it was a funny post. I even considered reposting it. I thought about being cute and crossing out “dog” and replacing it with “dogs” (because I have four), or changing it to something like, “there are just some people who will never meet my dog, or dogs,” or maybe even, “there are just some people who will never meet my dog, or dogs, again,” because, well…
Listen, I know there are some people who simply do not deserve to be around any living creature due to their decision to treat an innocent being inhumanely. Let me be very clear on that point. Any unkind or abusive treatment is an obvious red flag, a scarlet letter forever emblazoned on a person’s chest, and that’s right, that person will never, ever be around your dogs, or my dogs, nor should they be around any other dogs or innocent beings.
So yes, there is at least one possible exception to the should never meet my dogs scenario. But was the concept behind the post, while produced in jest, further perpetuating negative thinking, energy and creating disharmony?
And then I got to thinking…
Why would there even be a person, or people, in an individual’s life who should never have met a person’s dog, or dogs, or never have the chance to meet a person’s dog in the future, or never have the opportunity to see them again? Yup, that’s a rhetorical question. You and I both have our own answers to our whys.
In normal Jess-fashion, I contemplated, reflected, and personalized the thought to better empathize with a person who holds such strong sentiments, and even take a moment to better empathize with myself.
I reverted back to when I was able to tangibly embrace my passion (that’s 4 years old). Talk about a lot of years, and a lot of memories, and a lot of “stuff” to sift through. Memories, moments, and faces– the flickers of my mental time capsule, going at Mach speed. And with each face, memory, and moment, there were a few, not many, which did include people who, for all intents and purposes, were/are tied up in that silly little meme I referenced at the beginning of my post.
[Enter Thinking]
Ironically enough, the people who, in theory, should never have met my dogs, are the very people who, at the time, probably needed to meet my dogs the most. There are probably people I have yet to meet, who need to meet my dogs. There might even be people who have met my dogs, who really do need to meet them again. I am not quite sure how I feel about coming to such a realization. We fear the unknown right? Or is it that we fear the known?
My original creation; a mock-meme which I like to call, Probably the Ones who Needed to Meet them the Most. This image appears in my most recent instagram post | J. Maricevic, 2023.
A Transformative Impression
Dogs have a unique way of touching lives and teaching valuable lessons through their ability to bring joy, companionship, and help others become more patient, empathic, and responsible (Maricevic, 2022). Meeting another person’s dog can be a transformative experience for some individuals, even if they have had limited exposure to dogs or pets in general. It’s also possible that emotional competency development can happen without directly interacting with a person’s dog (Maricevic, 2022). It can also happen for a person who observes others interact with their furry family member.
Yes, that means when one person is able to witness (1) how another interacts with a dog, (2) how one person can love another being other than themselves or (3) a demonstration of reciprocal and unconditional love in return, those observations alone have the potential to leave a positive impression on a person’s psyche (Maricevic, 2022). Not just any impression, a transformative impression; an impression for the better.
Interacting either directly or indirectly with a dog can model what it looks and feels like to give and receive unconditional love, how to develop trust, embrace responsibilities, and the importance of living in the present moment (Maricevic, 2022). Such observations can also provide an opportunity for empathic growth, as others learn to understand the needs and behaviors of the do, in turn strengthens a person’s ability to develop and form bonds over time with humans and dogs (Maricevic, 2022).
Let’s not forget, dogs are known to have a positive impact on mental health, reducing stress and anxiety. For people who may be struggling emotionally or socially, a dog could provide a source of comfort, support, and a means for connecting with others during moments when feeling isolated, or even ostracized from the world. Dogs serve as a bridge for connectivity, helping to establish, solidify, and even mend relationships.
Got Hope?
At first thought, there might be people who come to mind who should never have met a person’s dog, or never will get the chance to meet a person’s dog, or those who will never have the chance to meet a person’s dog again. Now, minus the aforementioned exception, I challenge that initial thinking. In fact, I propose those should never or will never statements, shift to maybe one day statements.
If one is to change from a never mindset, to a maybe mindset, does that potentiality provide more space for positive thoughts, and less negativity? Does a change from a never mindset, to a maybe mindset create a space for an unexpected connection, a misunderstanding understood, a missed connection redirected, or serendipitous happenstance?
Admittedly, a change in mindset may never bring a moment to reality, and even if it does present itself, the moment might be fleeting or the opportunity anticlimactic. Those maybes may never happen at all. Even so, if there exists an opportunity for personal growth and positive experiences, and that opportunity starts within the individual themselves through self-empowerment and self-actualization, and there is no harm being done to oneself physically or emotionally, no harm being done to another person physically or emotionally, and no harm done to any person’s dog or dogs, then perhaps it’s worthwhile in the long run?
Perhaps, at least start with a shift in mindset. Perhaps be open to the maybe?
Maybe, one day [fill in the blank}.
Easier said than done, you say?
Maybe.
But I figure, on this rainy summer’s day, it’s worth a try. Chalk it up to needing some Vitamin D, being over all this rain, or an exercise in strength conditioning…. ’tis the season to bulk up the mental and emotional fortitude needed for the time when the radiant rays of sunshine give way to crisp fall days.
Inspired by the picturesque Hudson River Valley, where my love and appreciation for dogs first blossomed, I proudly present to you the debut of the new and improved logo for Empathic Paws!
Newly designed logo for Empathic Paws/J. Maricevic (2023)
A Splash of Visual Rhetorical Devices
Allow your eyes to follow the flow of a river, through the protective hills of the valley. Let your vision glance downward towards the river’s end– calm, cool waters.
My self-designed logo captures the rolling hills, meandering river, and lush greenery to create a captivating representation of comfort, security, and love, which in my opinion, is the essence of the Hudson Valley region of New York State, and the place I called home throughout my formative years.
In the central foreground of the logo, resides the graceful silhouettes of my beloved dogs— Judge, Daisy, Bravo, and Bud. Each purposefully placed in a layered, three-dimensional effect, with thoughtful consideration given to their personalities, sizes, and unique demeanors. The convergence of stylistic features and the representation of the “pack” at the center, symbolize the unwavering influence and immeasurable joy that Judge, Daisy, Bravo, and Bud bring to everyone they meet.
At its core, this new logo embodies the motif of home. A home, to me, is a sanctuary, where cherished memories are created, and the presence of a faithful canine companion remains steadfast. As I reflect upon the place where my love for dogs took root, I am reminded of life’s constant flow and its ability to lead us to unexpected destinations. The new Empathic Paws logo symbolizes this journey, showcasing the transformation and growth that brought me, my son, and our dogs to the vibrant Sound Shore region we now call home.
To Honor the Pack, is to Love the Pack
Some may argue that too much thought was put into a logo, but I disagree. The new Empathic Paws logo holds deep significance, not just because I designed it, or because it represents my personal journey from one home to another, and definitely not because it has cute graphics of dogs.
You see, Empathic Paws is not just an idea; it is a passion born from the profound love and appreciation I have for each and every canine companion I am fortunate enough to cherish. It is only appropriate that my new logo serve to honor the influence of my extraordinary pack, forever intertwined with the timeless spirits of their predecessors.
A Shout-Out to the Research
Let me put my “doctor-lens” on the topic for a quick second.
I know from my own qualitative research findings, as well as personal experience, the human-animal bond has the potential to be the antidote for many visible and invisible traumas humans carry with them (Maricevic, 2022).
Research (Maricevic, 2022) suggests the bond itself may cultivate feelings such as, but not limited to, unconditional love, safety, empowerment, happiness, fulfillment, calm, reassurance, confidence, inclusion, recognition, value, and a sense of being heard.
On a macro level, I believe the new logo symbolizes the incredible impact dogs can have on humanity, if given the opportunity to do this much-needed work. The captivating visual composition is aesthetically pleasing to the eye, utilizing soothing blues, vibrant greens, and golden hues, a color palette to evoke a sense of tranquility and vitality, mirroring the warmth and happiness reflective of the positive impact of the human-animal bond (Maricevic, 2022).
An inviting visual representation of the heart and soul of Empathic Paws, this logo is a testament to the unwavering bond shared with our four-legged friends and the power that resides within the gentle paw of a canine companion.
An Ideological Extension of that Cliché, Explained
Do you recognize an archetypal theme attached to the home motif? I’ll help you out a little bit. Regardless of life’s trajectory or physical location, a home is a place that includes the omnipresence of something larger than oneself, to make a person feel what they know in their hearts they deserve to feel in all facets of life, and to reciprocate that feeling, to others, in return.
By that self-proclaimed definition, home is not just a physical place, nor is it defined solely by the traditional sense of the word. Home is a state of being. Which means, for me, home is where my canine companions reside, whether they are standing by my side or resting in my heart. I find comfort in knowing that this logo is an ideological extension of that age-old cliché. You know, the one about homes and hearts? I find comfort in knowing that no matter where life takes me, I am always able to feel, because home is where the dogs are, and thus I am, forever home.
With heartfelt dedication, Empathic Paws strives to extend the genuine feeling of solace and warmth that emanates from the omnipresence of dogs to others longing to feel. It is within this opportunity that individuals can develop deep connections with canine companions, granting them a sense of comfort, belonging, and the unmistakable feeling of home.
I do hope you enjoy the new representation of Empathic Paws. In the coming weeks, you will see a slight restructuring of empathicpaws.com. The slow roll-out of these changes looks to incorporate aspects of the new logo to the site. During this time, you will still be able to access the site and reach out to me if needed. Thank you for reading!
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